horizon wrote:No, you need a very strong reason not to take the car (fitness, traffic, environment etc) which is why getting rid of the car altogether may be the only way of avoiding this no-brainer choice each time. No wonder people keep on driving no matter how big the jam, how expensive the petrol and how ill they get from lack of exercise.
Quite right. It's also the best way of bypassing all the silly self-righteousness about who is the greenest or the most dedicated. ONE simple (though, I admit, possibly painful) decision takes all this out of your hands. I'm pretty sure that if I had a car I would use it, and that I would find similar rationalisations for doing so to the ones everybody else uses. Everyone has their own ideas about what is "essential" use, but in reality there's no such thing - just different levels of choice, convenience and sense of entitlement, which in any case are not available to everyone. Simply wanting these things for oneself or one's children isn't immoral, so it's no wonder people get upset when the validity of their reasons for using the car is questioned. All this doesn't stop the dominance of the car, and every individual use of it, having profoundly negative social effects. If you can't bring yourself to get rid of it, don't feel guilty - but don't complain either if the rest of us try and bring in measures to curtail your driving privileges.