Corpulent_Porpoise wrote: ↑7 Sep 2024, 8:59am...spent the last few years devoting myself tirelessly to food and beer with very little exercise.
Drinking wine is the reason my diet still hasn't ended. I'm 5'10" and would have got down to the aim of 10.5 stone by July 23rd (starting the diet around the beginning of March) if it wasn't for drinking wine. The actual end date is going to be more like March 2025. Simply because of drinking wine most nights. Alcohol has a ridiculous amount of calories and the worst thing is, it's 100% useless, zero nutritional value. I think eating cardboard would probably give you more nutrition, but we all like a drink.

I even worked out dry wine is about the lowest calorie alcoholic drink - I mean the only calories in it is the alcohol, at an astonishing 7 cals per gram/ml. That's closer to the calories of fat than carbs or protein, it's REAL bad if you're dieting. Can easily totally ruin a diet plan.
I'm only in a caloric deficit of about 250-300 cals per day when I am aiming at 1,000 and it would be if it wasn't for the damn wine. Maybe the worst thing about drinking is, it creates a false sense of being hungry and you eat more after a few drinks. It "lowers inhibitions" well that includes making it impossible to resist eating something. I've had nights where, without the wine and the extra food I have, I'd be consuming 1400 cals less. 1,000 for the wine and 400 from some stupid thing like a Pot Noodle or whatever I had only because I was a few sheets to the wind.
I have got an indoor trainer but, drinking the night before, tend to avoid going on it. That wouldn't be happening if I didn't drink, I'd be on it all the time. I think I need to go to AA or something.
What would I do?
Count every single calorie and aim for a 1,000 deficit, but in the 180+ days I have been dieting there's only been maybe 5 days I have actually managed to have that deficit. I think it's relatively safe to do so but it's an extreme deficit all the same and maybe you should make sure with a doctor first before cutting your food intake basically in half. It's nearly impossible, I mean for a start drinking isn't an option, fully stop, then also you need at least a big salad each day as part of that diet. Hard boiled eggs for some reason are a great help and with a salad (100g tomatoes, 100g cucumber, light mayo) can keep you going 6 hours. I found that cutting carbs
does work and the food you eat with low carbs can be quite "bad" for you as long as you're sticking to the caloric deficit... kebab meat, Peperami and anything like that with a lot of fat and protein and not much carbs, seems to work quite well.
Good luck anyway Corpulent_Porpoise - it takes hard work.