slowster wrote:He was just a boorish prat with poor social skills who is probably incapable of striking up a normal conversation with an adult, and so picked on a young child to be the recipient of his wisdom.
What he said to the child was entirely critical and negative, and he knew how to couch what he was saying in terms that might have the strongest impact on a young child, i.e. telling him he didn't need to dress like Bradley Wiggins. Most kids want to wear the kit of their sporting idols, whether it be a football jersey, a rugby jersey or cycling kit. Cugel talks about treating children as people, but this man was rude, arrogant and condescending, which is no way to treat anyone, least of all a child.
According to the OP "the lady said nothing at all.When I caught her eye she appeared to give a slight smile." I bet she was inwardly cringing that once again her husband had behaved like a prat and got himself into a confrontation.
I've said before that the man did not know how to behave appropriately and did not respect social norms. He was lucky that the OP did. Many fathers would not be so tolerant of a stranger criticising and upsetting their child. Some of those fathers would be even less respectful of social norms than the old man, and would be aggressive and even physical. If the silly old fool doesn't change his behaviour, sooner or later he will end up meeting someone like that.
Or perhaps the conversation went more like:
GOM: "Hi, I see you cycled here. Are you enjoying the ride?"
Child: "Yes, did you cycle here too?"
GOM: "We did, those are our bicycles over there"
Child: "Then why aren't you wearing proper cycling kit? Where's your H****? "
GOM: "You know, you don't really have to dress like BW or wear a H*** to cycle. It's perfectly possible to ride a bike in normal clothes like ours."
Child: "Daddy! That man just told me off about my clothes and said I didn't need to wear a H***!"
Frankly, from the report of the OP we don't know whether the GOM was being a boorish prat or just having normal conversation and treating the child with the respect that his apparent age would call for. Many (including the OP) are assuming this was an out of context lecture - but the winess we have is second hand and unreliable. Of course for those so paranoid as to believe there is danger in anyone they don't personally know speaking to their child, this distinction is of no consequence. A sad life they must live and sad people they are raising (all IMHO of course).