I would so much prefer to cook a meal that everyone loved and enjoyed, rather than have to gaze as folk glaring into their dinner plate (or starter plate) with a growling tummy.
Im allergic to shellfish I get anaphalatic shock so needing hospitalisation etc if it gets slipped in. So I am very careful with ingredients. But its only shellfish so I havent had an attack since the early 90's. So I am aware perhaps of other peoples dietary needs.
Vegetarian no problem (always up for a challange) and Ive even done vegan but that did cause me to have to buy a book and I was concerned with flavour. My favourite auther for vegetarian food is Sarah Brown, she is proberly really old now, but her books never date at least.
IN regard to restaurants they are usually accommodating if you let them know. Im sure they would prefer perfection than have clients complaining to them and having to re-do a meal. I really havent had much of a problem once Ive called in first. Saying that, we never eat out now so its not a problem anyway.
Maybe Im just easy to please?
But I am also a bit obsessive with my cooking.

Mary