M'lud, I rest my case for the defence of aluminium and carbon fibre...
If that's yer case then I think that Ti is found not-guilty what you describe is hardly lab conditions - we have no idea if the same forces were going through the two bikes or not so it's pretty meaningless. Furthermore, in that photo it's the weld that has gone not the tube - you can weld anything badly and it doesn't matter how strong the tube is, it'll be no stronger than the weld.
I, too, know someone who has busted a Litespeed - he did it by repeatedly doing head high jumps and taking it down a DH course (despite it being a light weight XC race bike) over a number of years - I was amazed that it lasted that long, and certainly wouldn't be put off by the result of his mistreatment of it!
My personal experience is that I've had equal numbers, more or less, of Alu and steel bikes over the years. Have, so far, snapped six or seven Alu frames but no steel frames. Now you might think that this would put me off Alu, but no, my two currently most used bikes are both Alu. That's because I know it's not the material, it's the build quality that matters most - I've two old American built Zaskars and I think that they are as comfortable as and as strong as any of my steel bikes. They were top of the line race bikes in their day but I'm more than happy to tour or load lug with them.