mjr wrote:Disclosure: I have my phone set to read out message and missed call notifications while I'm driving. I then either act on the information (changed appointment location or whatever), pull over and stop in a safe place to return an urgent message, or wait until my next scheduled stop and deal with it then. I don't need to look at or touch my phone while driving to do this. I don't think hands-free calling while driving is safe enough, either - as others have suggested, the law is lagging behind current research evidence on that.
I also feel that satnavs and dashcams should have to have detailed controls where they cannot be reached from the normal driving position, too. Maybe OK and cancel buttons on the wheel or similar, like how car stereos often have a "dismiss traffic alert" button on the wheel (handy for those times atmospheric skip and/or strange transmitter service areas brings you someone waffling about roads 150 miles away which you really don't need to hear), but entering new addresses and stuff should be made impossible while driving.
Your notification system seems sensible. I don't answer my mobile if it rings when I am driving. I get off the road and find a safe place to park, and then check any message in case it is urgent (I have elderly relatives in poor health). A system like yours would be much better for me, as I would be able to decide if it was necessary to change my route immediately, find somewhere to stop to answer it, or ignore it.
In fact, I rarely give anyone my mobile number, and I tell them the condition of having it is they must never to use it except by prior arrangement (if I am meeting them) or in an emergency when they must always use the landline first, so I just about never get calls when driving anyway- and that's the way I like it.
I do tear people off a strip if they use it outside those conditions. Basically, if 'm not out and about, I may not check it for a week. Tell people that and they do tend not to use it unless it is essential.
Hands free or not, I will not talk to anyone on their mobile either if I find they are driving- I end the call. I don't want to be responsible for distracting them.
When I finally got a satnav just recently, my brother helped me set it up. He told me he placed his where he could not reach it when driving so as never to be tempted to touch it when he shouldn't. I do the same. It is set to be quiet enough not to be a nagging distraction if I have to change my route at a point when I can't stop straight away to turn it off.