I think all the different responses goes to show that everyone reacts completely differently, both drivers and cyclists. Also depending on what mood they're in too!
I guess the bottom line is do whatever you want but stay safe. My initial reaction is to be aggressive too so I'm no angel, but I do believe that the
wiser option is to react passively. You can call it "meek" if you want but I suppose it depends on what you define as "strength" doesn't it? I would say that greater strength and options come from yielding, reacting with mental agility and controlling within your
own terms, rather than resisting, fighting and risk losing control or getting yourself or someone else hurt. That's all about regret. I wish I had said this, done that, not done that, etc etc etc. Best avoided. So what... an idiot is an idiot.. what are you gonna do about it whether you fight or not? It's all petty one-upmanship. I find that if I keep myself safe and do the right thing, I know I'll have no regrettable thoughts later in the day and I find I don't
need to make the other person know it to make me feel better.
So is it wisdom vs strength or jsut those who desire to get the last word and those who don't?
Like I said before, I actually think the only way to stop someone bullying you is to smash his face in, but that's insane. So I take the other option and not be reduced to petty squabbling over an encounter with a fool.
But it's clearly totally individual as to where the line is drawn and at what point enough is enough, so eachto their own