I don't comment on the forum anymore but this time I feel strongly that your first statement is very true.
Coming from a generation born during WW2 and brought up in a time when aspirations weren't about; where shall we take our next holiday, have a new car, kitchen TV etc?
Although having some rewarding jobs I have never been a high earner, but never wasted money. To get the money for a house deposit we saved every penny for 5 years, going without holidays, car or new furniture just content with stuff given to us. Was it tough, was it worth it? You bet it was I've never regretted it.
The ability to live within our (modest) means was instilled into me by the actions of my parents.
I have a pension and some savings but I don't consider myself rich.
My daughter's partner tells me having savings is wrong and money needs to be spent to keep the economy healthy.
He follows this and has quite a number of loans. He works and has a decent job but his life is like a house built from playing cards, lose his job and his whole lifestyle is in danger of collapsing.
In a nutshell for me I refuse to feel guilt for having ended up with a house (paid for) a few £'s in savings and a state pension I contributed to all my working life.
Every generation has to overcome hurdles, mine were different to today but none the less difficult.
Waiting to see what the 'wise men' on here say.