PH wrote:What I get from reading this thread is an insight into how we are all different, both in terms of what works for our biology and as a strategy.
For me, getting obsessed about it is very effective, writing everything down, planning meals, counting calories, weighing everything, planned exercise.
It's good to see all the different approaches, maybe try a few and find what works for you, less good to have anyone tell you there's only one way to achieve what you want.
You are of course correct and if the detailed approach works for you (and others) then great. My point was that such an approach could be, for some, counterproductive.
I'm also sure that you are not at all like the friend from my teens who counted every calorie down to the individual pea but somehow would forget to record the Mars Bar or packet of crisps consumed when out and about and then couldn't understand why she was not losing weight