I'm 5' 6", 30" inside leg. My bike has a compact frame, with a 55cm virtual top tube length. Stand-over height is no problem, but even with the shortest stem on, my hands (thumbs particularly) ache after a long ride. I've raised the bars to the highest they will go and can't get a shorter stem, hence the thinking to get a custom frame for longer rides. But would a better fitting frame bring any other benefits other than a bit more wrist comfort? Does this frame sound too big to you? Does a shorter frame bring any dis-advantages even if customer made by a reputable builder like Mercian, Yates or Roberts? Am I just being a wuss as everyone gets aching wrists etc after a long ride? What would you do, supposing the money was available?
Advice greatly appreciated!