snibgo wrote:If anyone cares (and why should they?) there is nothing wrong with starting a sentence or even paragraph with "and". And there never was; it's an urban myth.
And

to think I used to care.
I am 47 and had the unfortunate experience of being taught decimal and imperial systems (neither particularly well) and left school in 1979 with a pile of essentially worthless CSE certificates and one O level ( a D in physics

). I am guessing the teachers were good enough and did their best with the material at hand.
My written communcation is good enough for the settings I frequent (e.g. here or report writing or submitting an essay) . However, I still have the feeling of inadequacy when people point out how scruffy my writing is. And yet they cannot hold their own in a verbal debate. They can structure a sentence and know what a 'passive verb' is but sometimes have little to say?
My hand writing still causes me angst and is one of the things I would love to have the time to spend doing and to develop........that said there are personal limits to some of the skills we can develop. This includes language - written or spoken. Some people scale the dizzy heights others scrape by.
Alongside the above tools of language (numeracy/literacy) one should always use spell check if one is not a trained typist or word processor (if it matters in the context you are writing in), or and this to me is the key - is a 'professional communicator' as opposed to just yer avrige thicko'..................... that is where the eror - if any lies [sic]. That said those in the media arent professionally educating us they are just offering opinion - if they were I would have more of an issue with a dodgy sentence or an incorrectly structured sentence (within the parameters I set). I can take or leave what the media spouts.
Language changes over time whether we like it or not due to various influences (Shakespeare any one?). As tools come along so does 'liberation'. How can people be expected to communicate on a screen less than 1" square using full words and grammar and achieve the speed desired (texting). I agree though just because we have the means doesnt always mean we should follow the direction that the liberation suggests.
Whether we feel use of a 'style' of language dilutes or reinforces a message or not depends on the user and the context. I have worked on my language/communication skills for years because I feel I was 'kept down' in some regard due to my lack of education, accent, poor language skills and in other regard due to my lack of ability or skill. It has paid dividends and has led to work I wanted and given me access to the secret club of the academics (or should that be The Academics

).
I find the use of 'brought' instead of 'bought' intensely irritating. Why? Because to me it is beyond the limit I accept as accurate, I also find the lack of the words 'to the' in a sentence irritating e.g. I
will go toilet instead of I will go to the toilet

but that is a 'Swindonism' I think and I can still figure out the intention
Therein lies the rub - despite the vehicle can we understand the intention, just because we cannot understand doesnt make the other wrong, it takes two. If we can understand enough to point out where we feel someone has gone 'grammatically wrong', perhaps we should have the grace to point it out - in a way that is acceptable to both parties.
With regard to the 'media' - I wouldnt bother. With regard to my peers I try to be sensitive in pointing out what I feel their error is if it matters.
CU all L8rs
