beachcomber wrote:Sorry lawnet but it seems to me to be half a dozen of one and six of the other.
Er no, the interaction between me and him is not the issue. I don't really care what another individual cyclist thinks of me, what I don't appreciate is a dozen or more other path users getting a bad impression of cyclists, and I don't like seeing old ladies running out of the way for no good reason.
You blocked the other riders path by choosing not to move out of his way because you thought he was going too fast.
Well no that's not quite true. I heard a bell behind me, I had no reason to suppose it was addressed at me given that I've never had anyone pass me on this path before, but I sped up slightly in case it was, and kept going in a straight line along the middle of the path (which is the best place to cycle on a narrow overgrown path). He then addressed me in a manner which I felt was less than polite, to which I responded only slightly curtly.
Then when he managed to get past, after what appears to have been a reasonable request on which side he could pass , you did the same as him by riding too fast and presumably sucking his wheel which winds most riders up when an unknown rider does it to them.
Well yes it was my intention to wind him up because I felt him to be an obnoxious idiot and riding in a manner not appropriate for the conditions. The point here however is that the interaction between me and the other cyclist is a minor irrelevancy, whereas things like this:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-surrey-11146478 http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-surrey-12908039 are a direct outcome of his type of behaviour.
As for riding too fast, while he certainly was, as has I think already been mentioned there's a big difference between blasting along with nobody ahead of you and following someone who has 'cleared the way'.
His requests to you appear to have been reasonably made, you ignored him or were dismissive with your reply. If he had been abusive I would agree about him being obnoxious but your conduct wasn't exactly gentlemanly and he did not seem to rise to the bait.
Really? 'Excuse me, could I pass' would have worked better than what he said, which implied that I was not cycling in a straight line. Having passed me, he then confirmed my suspicions by proceeding to blast all other path users out of the way. I'm not sure what you mean by rising to the bait, but I would much rather have exchanged a few more words with him than watched him alienate everyone else.
By following him at high speed I would say you gave the appearance to an observer of two riders riding together without consideratioin to others. I'll bet the old lady tells the tale to her friends and mentions both of you in the same vein.
Who said I passed the old lady the same speed as he did? Besides which, she was already cowering on the side of the path before he passed and she could see me coming - as soon as I passed she went back to what she was doing, there was no point in me slowing down to 5mph when she was already terrified and not likely to return until all bicycles were out of the way. Had I been there on my own I would have approached at 12-13mph given eye contact, slowed and passed on the other side of the path.
If you drive, do you hold up the outside lane by driving at 70mph then when flashed at by a following motorist let them past only to follow them closely at 85mph? It is in my opinion the same thing. You would both break the law and your driving could be classed as inconsiderate/dangerous.
That's an absolute absurd analogy. It's not a bloody motorway, it's a nice sunny towpath with people walking their dogs, fishing, walking home from school.
Don't misunderstand me, I don't agree with him riding at excessive speed or being overly forceful but you don't appear to have helped matters. Perhaps you'd be better to let him past and just enjoy your own ride.
Well I did let him past as soon as he spoke to me, which was actually only a few seconds after he rang his bell, given that he was exceptionally impatient. As for my response to him on the one hand it might be I shouldn't have let his 'are you going left or right' get to me, but on the other hand I think the greater good was to as I did and follow him, but I should have confronted him directly after the incident with the old lady and pointed out that it was not appropriate riding technique for a shared path.